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What Does Counselling Actually Look Like?
What Does Counselling Actually Look Like? For many people, the thought of counselling can feel intimidating. You might wonder: “What will I have to talk about?” “What if I cry?” “What if I don’t know what to say?” “What if it’s awkward?” These worries are completely normal. The truth is, counselling isn’t about saying the perfect thing or having everything worked out before you arrive. Some people come with a clear reason for seeking support. Others simply know they aren’t fe

Katie Smith
Jun 81 min read


Anxiety Isn’t Just Worrying
Anxiety Isn’t Just Worrying When people hear the word anxiety, they often think of worrying. But anxiety can show up in many different ways. It can look like: Overthinking every conversation Finding it difficult to relax Feeling constantly on edge Struggling to switch off at night Expecting the worst to happen Feeling exhausted all the time Being highly self-critical Avoiding situations that feel overwhelming For some people, anxiety feels physical. A racing heart. Tightness

Katie Smith
Jun 81 min read


Why Do I Always Put Everyone Else First?
Why Do I Always Put Everyone Else First? If you’re reading this, there’s a good chance you’re the person everyone turns to. You’re the listener—the helper. The one who checks in on everyone else, remembers birthdays, solves problems and keeps going even when you’re struggling yourself. On the surface, it can look like you’ve got everything together. Inside, it can feel very different. Many people who constantly put others first were never taught that their own needs matter to

Katie Smith
Jun 51 min read


Do I Need to Be at Breaking Point to Start Counselling?”
You Don’t Have to Be at Breaking Point to Start Counselling Many people think they need to be in crisis before they reach out for counselling. They tell themselves they’re coping well enough, that other people have it worse, or that they should be able to manage on their own. Sometimes they wait until they feel completely overwhelmed before asking for support. The truth is, you don’t have to be at breaking point to benefit from counselling. You might be carrying stress that n

Katie Smith
Jun 52 min read
Welcome to the Blog.
This is a gentle space where I share thoughts, reflections and guidance that may support you between sessions or help you understand more about counselling. You're welcome to read whatever feels helpful and leave the rest.
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